Its amazing how one could change so much over a few weeks, or may be I had all this hidden under my skin and its time for them to come out. I wonder if other dads too have this sort of connection between the baby and themselves, for me it is absolutely mind blowing. It is so freaking natural.
my first thought was that 'I am not going to hurt my baby' and I had to get over this fear, cos that would stop me from doing a lot of things. So, I got over it pretty quickly and started to handle him with more confidence. He was in my arms as soon as he was born and it felt like he was happily resting there. I knew exactly when he was feeling hungry and when he was going to do his nappies, I gave his first bath too..and you know what he dint cry one bit.. I think he liked it all through the time.. everything is perfect!
Pavy, my inlaws and parents, everyone is surprised by the way, we both are getting along. I definitely have to appreciate Pavy for having the trust in me, she believed that Neel will be safe in my hands and there he was, completely safe and sound, more importantly at peace.
my first thought was that 'I am not going to hurt my baby' and I had to get over this fear, cos that would stop me from doing a lot of things. So, I got over it pretty quickly and started to handle him with more confidence. He was in my arms as soon as he was born and it felt like he was happily resting there. I knew exactly when he was feeling hungry and when he was going to do his nappies, I gave his first bath too..and you know what he dint cry one bit.. I think he liked it all through the time.. everything is perfect!
Pavy, my inlaws and parents, everyone is surprised by the way, we both are getting along. I definitely have to appreciate Pavy for having the trust in me, she believed that Neel will be safe in my hands and there he was, completely safe and sound, more importantly at peace.
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